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[diemaeternum]

In Desperate Need of Some Serious Advice

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[put_her_there]

Heartbreak is tough. And break ups are the worst. And seeing someone you've known for such a long time just leave one day is hard.
But Tylar, you definitely have to do what's best for your future.
Everyone eventually moves on and gets over things. I know you don't want to hurt anyone by moving, but in this case you're going to have to be selfish and realize that this is the big move thats going to shape the rest of your life.
Fucking get out of Florida already. =P

And that's what I have to say

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[anonymous]

Tylar... yes I may not come and see you like I promise I do, but Id miss the hell out of you if you were to move. + I need to hang out with you soon and meet your girly friend hehe.
<3 December

[xsecretlywishx]

Staying in Florida mainly for a girl wouldn't be the smartest thing for you to do. Yeah, you care a great deal for her and all, but what's to say you'll feel the same 6 months or a year from now or she'll feel the same about you? Then you would have just thrown away the perfect opportunity for whatever kind of future you want. With all assholeness aside, she's really young and there's a really slim chance that a person knows exactly what they want and finds their life time partner when they are 13.

[put_her_there]

HOLLA TO THAT.

[doalittle_hig]

What a perfect way to put it, Tiffany.

Tylar. I think Cait is being selfish by guilt-tripping you into leaving. If she really "loves" you like she says she does, she'll let you go and live the life you've been dreaming about for three years. She'll want you to have the best life possible.
Teenage relationships aren't forever, in most cases.. I'm sorry to break it to you. Especially when one of the partners (Cait) is someone who has absolutely no sense of self or direction. (I'm not trying to insult her, and I'm sorry if I did. But she's 13. She's not mature for her age at all... so she's just like any other thirteen year old is, has been, and will be.)

This is something you have to do. Trust me. Having the "what if.." question in the back of your mind forever is.. a nightmare. It'll make you want to tear your hair from its roots.

Don't do anything you'll regret.
And don't pass up on an opportunity that you've been wanting for the past 3 years.

[doalittle_hig]

guilt tripping you into staying.* is what I meant to say....

[maillady]

yes, tylar i no your "depply in love" w/ this girl, but....u were "deeply in love" w/ my sister too, and now u have too broken legs!...............is that a signal that u need to think about ur future? yes. if she really loved u she would let u go. shes being selfish herself.SOOOOO anyways........i <3 u.

[young_n_cute]

tylar i know what im about to say pretty much disagrees to what other people have posted and probably will after this, but i love you, and i know i am going to feel the same in say 6 months, 1 year, however long it is, my feelings will never change. I dont want to sound selfish but i really do not want you to go, you are the only thing in my life that even matters to me, and well i dont even like to think about losing you. i know how i feel wont make you stay in the end and i know there is a pretty good chance you will go,i just wish and pray you wont. its hard to hold back my tears even thinking or typing about this. im sorry i would type more but i cant even think straight right now and my eyes are filling with tears, i love you more then anything, xoxo.

[maillady]

TYLAR :SAVE THIS ENTRY.READ IT TO HER WHEN SHE SEES SOMEONE ELSE APPEALING.of course your her world. SHES 13!!!! what does her parents think about this? just think back to the time when u were 13......dont u think ur "relationship maturity" wasnt even developed yet? hell, maybe it still isnt. but i still love you, sorry for neing so mean. but, u need a reality check.

[young_n_cute]

i may be fucking 13 but im a lot more mature then most people my age, o and by the way my parents love tylar!

[doalittle_hig]

You're not mature for your age.
Don't kid yourself.