Comments | digitall: Thanks...I think?

digitall

Thanks...I think?

Aug 24, 2005 16:12

Isn't it nice when you've done extremely well at getting over someone and it no longer gets to you and you think you can be really good friends and then they answer a question like "do you miss an ex" with "yes, but not you Scott"? I've been doing so fucking good at getting over everything and thought things were going well and then I read that. ( Read more... )

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soulresurrected August 24 2005, 20:16:34 UTC

sounds like she's playing games. there's your red flag right there. dont let her use you.

digitall August 24 2005, 20:19:24 UTC

I don't think she uses me. She isn't the type for that at all. My opinion would be that she just doesn't really know what she wants yet (in either direction) - that would explain the major personality changes so much.

I can't help her decide what she wants though. :-\

soulresurrected August 24 2005, 20:35:32 UTC

I see what you mean, but no matter how u look at it, she's still playing games and still needs to make up her mind and stop being so selfish. It's obviously hurting you a lot and it's not fair to u just cuz she doesnt know what she wants.

just say it anonymous August 24 2005, 20:41:16 UTC

I think you need to ask her straight up what's going on. Catch her in the middle of her game (and yes, if she avoids questions and keeps you hanging on like that it's a game). Don't play along anymore. If she ignores you and tries to avoid it, ask again. Girls do this stuff and it sucks. A lot. If she ignores a question about your friendship, then she's not really a friend. She should value you. You are a great person. Take it from someone who's known you from cowboy boots, to sk8er guy, to pink shirts. You, the real inside you, is awesome.

Re: just say it digitall August 24 2005, 20:46:10 UTC

Maybe the next time she wants to talk to me I'll do that. I know I need to but kept putting it off...I guess I'm insecure enough with myself to be worried about what the answer she gives might be....

You've definitely known me forever, that's for sure :-P At least you didn't put in the other half of one of those items like everyone else seems to enjoy doing...hahaha.

miss__melis August 27 2005, 02:45:27 UTC

why didnt you just ask me last night? you know you had the perfect oppurtunity. I won't say anything bad.

And I am NOT using you, I wouldn't do that..not to you, or anyone else for that matter. I'm sorry you've been given the impression that I have

digitall August 27 2005, 05:25:23 UTC

I don't know why I didn't. Just didn't think to I guess :-\ Of course this was written during one of those times where everything was seeming to be shitty and that just kind of topped it all off ( ... )

soulresurrected September 17 2005, 01:34:45 UTC

I think it's time for you to update ;-)