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[dinolives]

Just for the hell of it, I'll leave this one unlocked too.

Expired all my sessions, and changed my password. Maybe now I dont have to worry about Seneca being/logging into MY journal and reading all of my extremely personal business. Then going out with 3 of MY friends and having them coddle him all night and listen to HIS gripes. A complete

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[primarycolor]

the purging lj thing is a good idea. I've done it a few times but it does make me feel better. When crazy ass megan was trying to fuck me over with job stuff, i changed journals and hid it from her. It made me feel secure and safe. and then i locked it. well, the more important stuff anyway and it's definetley worth my peace of mind. And I can control who sees what. I changed my password too, so that not even you know it... and I trust you more than almost anyone. ya dig?

[dinolives]

on to more important things
http://stencilwithstyle.com/LM%20226%20Treble%20clef.gif
what do you think of this for part of my tatoo?
i need to find a sweet ass bass clef now..

[primarycolor]

are you going to do it in colors? it'll look neato either way.

are we still on tonite?

[dinolives]

yeah.
is it cool if agnus and danielle come too?

[isruc]

Hmmm, well, I can't say that I haven't had the same ideas for myself, in regards to starting up a new LJ and deleting this one; however, I keep coming back to this and trying to re-work it. My difficulty is not so much in my situational matters; but rather that of expectations of others. Funny how people can influence us even against our goals; though even they we consider to be good friends.

Do what you must; but also know that you do have ability to take control of the situation by not allowing these things to get to you. Ending your sessions and changing your password should hopefully be enough to deal with the issue at hand. I think it is good that you are giving it a couple days to consider what you must do in regards to this LJ. I've done that myself many times as I have stated.

One thing that I've awoken to over the past couple weeks is that my life need not revolve around LJ. LJ should not be the center of my life; but rather it should simply be a mild reflection of who I am... Not the source of who I am.

[livingdeadlilly]

so, i totally like the new LJ idea.... i started a new one actually...but i dunno i dont use it haha.

i looked at the clef. very lovely, i'd keep it Black, colors would make it gaaawwddyy. and with out proper black line barriers colors can bleed over time, which COULD make it blurry.

[djrobertc]

new LJ idea is good.

It seems a complete separation may be in order as it looks as though he is not willing to let go (illustrated by snooping in your LJ). I've been supportive as much as possible in your relationship with him but at this point I would suggest breaking off all forms of communication - email, phone, IM, whatever. A clean break for several months can really help you to regain focus and help you to better reflect.

I had to do this with a friend. It was hard, and he kept on trying to get in touch with me, but as I had stated to him, I would not have any form of communication for at least three months. That was probably one of the best things I did for both me and him (shhh... his name is Josh LOL).

[heyjude91781]

I'd have to agree with everyone and say...like the new LJ idea. What would your new layout look like?

**I've had you on my friends list for like almost a month now. Why aren't I on yours yet??** ^_^

[heyjude91781]

im changing the LJ quick here anyway
so ill add you on that one when its done, dear