You should never think of yourself as the comfy old shoe. There's nothing old or worn out about you. You're the perfect pair of pants. You fit right and make him feel sexy as hell!
You can't be the "comfy old shoe" when you are younger than Ms. Flirtation! Come on! As a writer you know that metaphor just doesn't work! ;)
I'm not sure a shoe or clothing metaphor will really work in this situation. But that is beside the point. Mr. T finds you desirable, engaging as well as comfy! And you really do know that an addition for him is not a subtraction for you.
Staying busy helps me to stay positive, got anything to be busy with?
Since you chose a dynamic kind of relationship, it is natural to find challenge from time to time. I am sure he appreciates that you give him this kind of freedom. I understand you are in a fragile stage now and need more assurance in relationship. If you are not comfortable of giving him the freedom for this period of time, talk to him. Tell him it is temporary. I am sure he would understand. You are choosing a new path in life. I am very proud of you. It is very courageous of you to choose this path. It must be a bit scary at the beginning. On the other hand, it is very possible that you will find other hot attractive guys on the road throughout this adventure. Think about how would you feel about it and how would you handle it with him when you are in his shoes. Whatever happens, it does not mean you are not as good. I am sure you still occupied an important part in his heart and brain no matter how hot and threatening the other chick is. I am here if you need to talk.
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I'm not sure a shoe or clothing metaphor will really work in this situation. But that is beside the point. Mr. T finds you desirable, engaging as well as comfy! And you really do know that an addition for him is not a subtraction for you.
Staying busy helps me to stay positive, got anything to be busy with?
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