resentment

[tibymia]

how do i deal with resentment. bcs i knw i have resentment. otherwise i wouldnt always be negative and inclined to start arguments over lil things. resentment with this LDR. seems like this is what ive always dealt with for the past 3 years

Comments

[heartovmidnight]

It's really hard, believe me. After moving to another country, leaving everything, my house, family and friends to a place where I know no one and basically have nothing but my husband's family, there are times when I have some SERIOUS resentment.

I just remind myself about how much I love him and try to breathe through it. Distract yourself, go shopping or read or something.

[littlekoneko]

I really think you need to communicate this with him. Does he know that you feel resentment? is it because you sacrifice things for him? does he know?

Communication is so hard across the distance because you can't pick up on tone of voice or body language. Words are not really how we say things. I'm sorry that you're feeling this way.