Jeff called today at 12:30, at first the conversation was all cheery and then he goes "We need to talk" I was like ut oh Im not gonna like this. And then I hung up
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I'm sorry... I thinkmrcleanandfreshSeptember 5 2005, 02:09:31 UTC
I don't want to sound like a total prick, but to be completely honest, I had hoped this day would come ever since you told me that you were dat... ever since Kassi told me you were dating Jeff
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Re: I'm sorry... I thinkdisturbedrosesSeptember 6 2005, 21:35:10 UTC
Kevin, I really dont have the energy to be mad at you. Or trust me I would be absolutely PISSED!
I have a complete understanding how you feel but the whole thing is there are some differences you forgot to look at.
First of all your prolly asking how I understand how you felt? The answer is simple. Look at what Jake did to me. Why do you think it took me soo long to dump you? I was trying so hard to make it the easiest for you. It was totally sucky that Kass told you because I wanted to say it to you myself.
And second all I knew of Kirksville was basically Jeff, so now Im trying my hardest to see what the help Kirsville is like. You have lived in Loveland most of your life. I have lived in K-town for 13 months. Its hard being so new here and now having to rediscover everything.
Look Im not gonna argue with you about anything. I really dont have the time or energy. If you think that the only thing thats going wrong in my life is Jeff dumping me then you are sadly mistaken.
Call me if you want to respond... or respondmrcleanandfreshSeptember 7 2005, 06:38:50 UTC
Ashley, first of all, I am totally compassionate to your situation. I am genuinely sorry that you and Jeff broke up. I was over you the day you broke up with me. What you don't understand is that it is taking a long time to get over the actions of you
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Re: Call me if you want to respond... or respondmrcleanandfreshSeptember 7 2005, 06:39:20 UTC
I realize you say you were dependant on him, but I just don't believe that. You had to have made more friends than just Jeff. There is life after a relationship and it's usually the best type. I want you to get back out there and get on your feet. I don't want you to let this bring you down; you have a lot more strength and endurance than that.
Also, I think it's still in your mind that you're new, when really, you're not - like I said, you've been there a year. You have definitely made plenty of friends. I'm going to be blunt for a second: Honestly, you're being very dramatic. Jeff very well may have been the love of your life, but you know what? Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You do not have to rediscover everything just because Jeff is gone! You are a VERY strong woman - you'd have to be to go from, someone with my personality, to someone with Jeff's
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Re: Call me if you want to respond... or responddisturbedrosesSeptember 7 2005, 23:00:29 UTC
Thank you for trying to be a friend.
Please dont give me advice!!!! Right now Im hurt. I dont want advice. I want to cry and just let all this pain out. I dont want to hear how to make it through or how I have friends. I just want to let all this pain and frustration out. Not listen to all this. Im sorry, its just right now though I cant stand it.
Re: Call me if you want to respond... or respondmrcleanandfreshSeptember 8 2005, 04:49:06 UTC
You and I both know that sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to help. You and I both know that all that's going to do is throw you back into old habits.
I am not by any means saying that you should bottle everything up, or be over jeff already, but don't let this imobilize you. There are other men in the world. Not only that, but remember what you said up there? You said Jeff told you that you guys needed a break. There is still a chance.
However, even though there's still a chance of you two getting back together, I wouldn't wait around for him because if he doesn't come back for you, then you'll have wasted all that time.
Basically, don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself; mourn your loss and give yourself sufficent time, then move on. Don't get caught up with Jeff - you have a life to manage.
KEVIN!!!!!!! Did I not just get done saying dont give me advice?
Geez I hate to be mean but I really needed you to just say "Ok Ashley, Im here to talk to if you need me." And you couldn't even do that. Kevin please Just do me this favor. Quit when I ask.
No Im not gonna spend all my time over Jeff, and yes Im trying very hard to just move on and not think about it, but it hasn't even been a week.
Im going to get a bishop's blessing, there is just so much going wrong. And Im afraid I might snap and become what I used to be. So ya....we'll see how that goes
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I have a complete understanding how you feel but the whole thing is there are some differences you forgot to look at.
First of all your prolly asking how I understand how you felt? The answer is simple. Look at what Jake did to me. Why do you think it took me soo long to dump you? I was trying so hard to make it the easiest for you. It was totally sucky that Kass told you because I wanted to say it to you myself.
And second all I knew of Kirksville was basically Jeff, so now Im trying my hardest to see what the help Kirsville is like. You have lived in Loveland most of your life. I have lived in K-town for 13 months. Its hard being so new here and now having to rediscover everything.
Look Im not gonna argue with you about anything. I really dont have the time or energy. If you think that the only thing thats going wrong in my life is Jeff dumping me then you are sadly mistaken.
Ya karma sux
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Also, I think it's still in your mind that you're new, when really, you're not - like I said, you've been there a year. You have definitely made plenty of friends. I'm going to be blunt for a second: Honestly, you're being very dramatic. Jeff very well may have been the love of your life, but you know what? Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You do not have to rediscover everything just because Jeff is gone! You are a VERY strong woman - you'd have to be to go from, someone with my personality, to someone with Jeff's ( ... )
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Please dont give me advice!!!! Right now Im hurt. I dont want advice. I want to cry and just let all this pain out. I dont want to hear how to make it through or how I have friends. I just want to let all this pain and frustration out. Not listen to all this. Im sorry, its just right now though I cant stand it.
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I am not by any means saying that you should bottle everything up, or be over jeff already, but don't let this imobilize you. There are other men in the world. Not only that, but remember what you said up there? You said Jeff told you that you guys needed a break. There is still a chance.
However, even though there's still a chance of you two getting back together, I wouldn't wait around for him because if he doesn't come back for you, then you'll have wasted all that time.
Basically, don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself; mourn your loss and give yourself sufficent time, then move on. Don't get caught up with Jeff - you have a life to manage.
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Geez I hate to be mean but I really needed you to just say "Ok Ashley, Im here to talk to if you need me." And you couldn't even do that. Kevin please Just do me this favor. Quit when I ask.
No Im not gonna spend all my time over Jeff, and yes Im trying very hard to just move on and not think about it, but it hasn't even been a week.
Im going to get a bishop's blessing, there is just so much going wrong. And Im afraid I might snap and become what I used to be. So ya....we'll see how that goes
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