Comments | divechic186: LINDSAYS REVELATION

divechic186

LINDSAYS REVELATION

Dec 18, 2004 05:02

:: News Flash::

I am happy to be dependent. I dont want to independent and end up not ever needing anyone in my life. I'm proud to want to beloved and to want to love someone back. I'm not going to be ashamged to have that be an important part of my life no matter what anyone else thinks. No, its shouldnt rule or monopolize my life but that ( Read more... )

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dyng2bealive December 18 2004, 12:06:52 UTC

Hey, there's nothing with being dependent to a certain extent. I kind of know what you mean, because I feel that way about my friends. My friends are one of the most important things in my life. And while I could live without them, I really don't really want to have to. I think a lot of it is just who you're dependent on, and to what extent. Being dependent on guys to make you happy can be damaging, emotionally and physically. But being dependent on friends and family, who will always love you no matter what, well I don't think there's anything wrong with that :) .

divechic186 December 21 2004, 17:19:47 UTC

i think you might have missed the point... but as u read, nothings gonna change the way I am unless I want it to change.

anonymous December 18 2004, 13:07:18 UTC

i understand to, it's jsut that people have tried to change the way i am and i don't like it. it gets annoying after a while, and i get mad at them for it, then they get mad at me for getting mad at them!! so ya know!!

dancinggeek December 21 2004, 19:50:34 UTC

i am just so confused! what is with all this dependent stuff? and why can't i understand it? maybe i just rely on myself to much. but ya know i am quite content with being independent. i mean with relying on only myself i can deterime my own happiness, which i do alot. for instance if i get down in about five minutes i am back to my old self. and thats the way i like it. so lindsay i am sorry that sometimes i don't understand (like now) but i am just way to independent so all of this is really beyond me. but i am happy if your happy.

divechic186 December 21 2004, 21:24:06 UTC

You don't understand this for a reason, Lauren. This comment wasn't made for you. It was a general statement for people who seem to want to change the person I am. So don't worry about it, if I wanted you to understand it, you would have and known that you were supposed to read it and help. But I love you anyway Lauren!