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[dixierebelqtjg]

Ahh it sucks when you like a guy. You can't tell them for the fact that they aren't really looking for anything at the moment. And why would that be? Because someone else broke their heart and they don't seem to figure out the good people form the bad. I know been thier done that. Been blinded by such hurt and pain to only pick someone to hurt me

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Re: Be obvious

[dixierebelqtjg]

Hehe well he kind of knows cause I joke around with him a lot about us hooking up :-) So are you one that has posted on my lj before? How do I know ya ? :0D

[dixierebelqtjg]

Haha I was at a show and got a text from him tonight telling me to come see him he was bored and dinner would be on him.He was really sweet this week end. I spent the night with him he didn't even make a move on me. Like normally every guy does.Haha

The relationship between rebound and waiting...

[anonymous]

is a thin line of icing. You definitely have a quandry here and I'm torn on what to say. On one hand, I'm a firm believer in the philosiphy that humanity would be better off to have been born without the ability of restraint. People all the time are saying to be yourself, go for it, just do it... Very rarely do people actually take advantage of the one sht they're going to get at life. Humanity is one huge second guess. People should ditch their inhibitions and be honest and open. doubletalk keeps us from ever really living and keeps us wondering "what if". On the other hand, If a guy is smitten, he will usually say so imediately if confronted. If not and he plays the shy route, either he really is "taking a break from relationships", also known as "wants to sleep around and have some fun"... or he is keeping the option open so that if he decides he actually does like you he can still keep you around at least until some else comes along that catches his eye and shows some play. Guys are crazy like that. I'm not blaming it all on them

well then

[dixierebelqtjg]

Well we have talked and he told me he did like me. He just wishes his x didn't mess him up so bad in the head which I can understand. I donno I've had it done to me one to many times for me to care any more really. But now I am taking my time getting to know someone because when I do take it fast I only get burned in the end. I've really taking a liking to this guy. But when you make post like that it freaks me out and makes me want to think again about even liking a guy. Its bad that just reading this crap makes me even question my self. I enjoy spending time with this guy unlike guys in the past few months. He makes me laugh and smile its great. Its not like some fake ass smile I always do. I have been dying to kiss him but I haven't at all. I just really don't want to take stuff to fast at all. When we hugged today he seemed to hold me a little closer for some reason. But I donno. Just seening how things go in the end...

Re: well then

[dixierebelqtjg]

slow is good. Being held close is even nicer. As the book of the wise says, "we want more what we cannot have." It sounds like hes waiting for something, some sort of will rejuvinating kick in the ass maybe... you better make sure before you jump in both feet if you're so worried about getting hurt. If hes a little hesitant now and you push too much it will go bad much quicker. Unforunately love and relationships is a game for suckers. We're all suckers and we all play the game. The problem is that everybodywants to win. Nobody want to play correctly. Enough about love and such. When are you going to get a new car? That VW looks like it's on its last leg.

Re: well then

[dixierebelqtjg]

I almost forgot...

sincerely,
someone who knows the value of a good Pizzahut salad.

[dixierebelqtjg]

So you have to be Quaz or Dylan..

if you think about it...

[dixierebelqtjg]

I dont have to be either. A whole lot of people knew that you guys were going to pizzahut.