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trxgedy January 21 2006, 17:51:35 UTC
Again, I'm sorry Sarah. That all sounds very hard to deal with.
I haven't had to deal with death of someone CLOSE in awhile.
At least you both were there. At least Daniel got to be with his dad another time.
I hope you guys manage to do ok. I love you.
Try & have at least a manageable day. ♥

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dizzyflower January 21 2006, 18:52:43 UTC
I truely believe that Bob was waiting for Daniel - to see him one last time before he passed on...

I've never dealt with any type of death before. It was all very surreal.. And actually seeing him pass and then holding his cold hand for hours until the took him away was just.. I dont even have the words...

He was like a real father to me... my dad was never in the picture and I loved being around Bob because he was so wonderful. I wanted him to be the one to walk me down the aisle on my wedding day...

I could go on and on, but I wont... Thanks so much for your support. We're trying to take steps forward, but it's hard. Seems like for every step forward, something triggers two steps back. But we'll get through it...

Again, thanks so much for being here for me.

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trxgedy January 21 2006, 19:06:49 UTC
Yeah that's what I had thought but I didn't know if it would have been appropriate to say.

I can only imagine what it was like...
Well you can always light a candle for him on your wedding day. Have a table specifically for him? Just a thought.

You're welcome. :)

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marionette January 21 2006, 17:57:48 UTC
oh, i am so sorry. if you guys need anything at all, you can count on me. i wish i could do or say more.

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dizzyflower January 21 2006, 18:53:35 UTC
Thankyou truely.

I know how everyone feels when they dont know what to do or say. I mean, *I* dont even know what to do or say. but knowing that youre here for me is a great thing. Thank you so much.

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whydoihavethis January 21 2006, 20:40:35 UTC
i'm so sorry you're going through all of this :( make sure to take care of yourself, okay? when someone dies, it's so easy to take care of everyone else and not really let yourself go through all the emotions that you're feeling, but it's so important to do that.

i know we don't really know each other that well, but i've gone through this a few times, and i'm always here if you need to talk about it. (((hugs)))

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westbanjo09 January 22 2006, 01:08:41 UTC
I'm sorry for your loss. i hope everyone will be ok in dealing with this.

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afterthedreams January 22 2006, 02:48:42 UTC
I'm just reading my friends list for the first time today and saw this post and am now bawling my eyes out.

I'm so sorry, Sarah. I know that doesn't mean anything. I think it's so special how he waited for Daniel, though; Nonno did that for my dad as well. I truly believe it's possible. Nonno was in a coma for a week until my dad flew in from a business trip and spent the night by his side, then Nonno finally let go.

I'm so sorry. A card, for what it's worth, will be on the way tomorrow . If you guys need anything, let me know.

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