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[dizzyflower]

Oh no, nononono

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[cubantigger]

oh honey *hugs*

[afterthedreams]

I found one in my grandma's drawer. My mom said she got it for her when I turned 13. The beginning is filled out -- but then she got Alzheimers.

[dizzyflower]

that is sooo sad... i just about died when i saw this and daniel burst into tears, as well.

[marionette]

oh, i am so sorry. i hated going through stuff when my grandpa passed away. old pictures and stuff. it was so hard. =/

[dizzyflower]

we're holding off on that stuff for a little while. it's way too hard for that now, but i fear it always will be. i dont even want to think about it =/

[breastless]

:( i'm so sorry.
things like that really hurt me too.
my kids will probably never have a grandfather either (or at least a decent one)
my father died jan 1 2004 and my boyfriends father is crazy...literally crazy. he is a paranoid skitzo.
just the little things sadden me, like no one to go fishing with or play ball with or any of those grandfatherlike things.

[dizzyflower]

exactly... Bob would have been such an AMAZING grandfather... and now Kaidan, or any of our other kids for that matter, wont be able to have that grandfather connection.. My dad isn't in my life so there's no connection there, either...

[breastless]

yeah :(
its so hard to think about it and watch things on tv with the perfect famlies, but then i see other people have the same things i have.

obviously i'm not (nor you) the only one out there who is going to have kids with out grandfathers.

life throws a MEAN curve ball, things are never going to be the way we plan them, or how we would like them to be.

i remember in the posts when Kaidan was first born how Bob was such a jolly grandfather. its really a shame what life does to us.

The two of you will get through this and hopefully it will make you that much stronger.

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