Jul 17, 2004 00:47
Ugh, Colleen, when're you gonna learn? It's a shame you didn't get arrested tonight. It might've taught you something. Then again, crashing while driving drunk could do that too.
Ignorance is bliss, I do believe.
-Nick
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I've found it impossible to understand how someone can see a problem, admit it exists, and yet not have the ability to enact some sort of control over that problem. I've lived my life controlling myself, my actions, my emotions.
How do you deal when the person you love fully admits to having problems that she believes she can't control? I have no idea. I'll let you know when I figure it out.
All I can say is: be there, and be strong. Fighting will only force her to dig in.
Sgt. O'Leary
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The moral of the story is you can't fight your way through this. Accept that her life is her decision and walk away. If she realizes the loss and subsequently makes the necessary changes then great. If not, she's not worth your pain. You have to realize that you have no power over her or her situation and therefore getting angry only sours your life.
And I didn't mean to intimate that she's a bitch and doesn't want to change - sometimes an impetus is required. Part of being human is the inability to truly see any situation in which you are involved from the third-person perspective.
Sgt. O'Leary
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-The H-Bomb has been dropped
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(insert Nick Henry: "Lets just blow up the human race") lol j/k
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