The Surprise of Life

[dj_octane]

Its funny how life can go from happy to scary in the blink of an eye. I've been writing nothing but good things about my realtionship on this journal. Well, a couple of days ago, things just turned for the worse. I know she's been hurt by a few guys before me, but why do I have to penalized for that?! I am a good person with a good heart and would

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[twiigy]

I'm a bit hardened when it comes to these things, so you might not want to take any advice I offer. I think you're honestly being screwed whatever it is you do. In subtle ways you somehow can't do anything right. Whenever you ask to do something she doesnt want to and when you fail to ask knowing that youre going to know the answer anyway you get bitched at. Then when you fail to follow a routine (which seems to be getting a little less than nowhere) she gets flustered anymore, when in following that routine its not going to get you any closer to where you want to be with her.

At this point I would give her an ultimatum and find out what the hell is really bothering her. Seeing as how I'm usually the girl in the relationship ( hehe) I can kind of give you some advice. I dont know if it helped any. I need rest....

[twiigy]

"she gets flustered anymore"

even more. I meant even more instead of anymore.

[mama_bear_tx]

Man, that's rough!! I'm sorry, hon.

Being pushed away is the worst feeling in the world, but there's really not much you can do, but give her space and time.

She pulled the you didn't ask me to where you were going bit. Argh!! Give her space, make sure you ask me to go with you even if I have plans, wtf??

Chicks can be weird like that. Course, so can some guys. They're hot, then cold.

What is it with people and games? Either you like the person or not. And if you do fucking show it or be HONEST and tell them you're not interested.

Okay, sorry, hon. I had to rant. I'm a bit frustrated myself, but it's all good.