It very obvious that you are hurt. YOu don't know me. What I will tell you, as someone that is older and hopefully wiser, is what you seem to be going through happens. Sometimes people we felt were our friends aren't. Or they were, but feelings change. You are very young. Many of you do not know how to end a relationship that is not working. It takes time. If talking to these people hasn't helped then the best thing to do is move on. Sometimes friendships can be rediscovered. Others never will be. One last thing I will say to you is that you will never get people to understand your side of things if you only blame them. Nowhere in your entry did you take any responsibility for what may have gone wrong. It is clear that you feel bad. I hope you feel better soon. Life at your age is hard. I promise -- it gets easier eventually.
i agree with u on almost everything, u are right. But im also not going to take responsibility for something that is not my fault, i did nothing at all besides be extremely nice to everyone, and im not gonna aplogize for that. The entry was not aimed at blaming people, it was aimed at making some people actually realize that they can hurt people without even knowing it. I understand there is nothing to do about the situation, i just wish it wasnt the way it was, considering all ive done is be nice and kind to everyone..... i dont understand it, thats all.
I hear you Dom...People who are our age don't seem to really appreciate friendliness anymore. It seems that if you try to be friendly, you just get fucked over time after time. I speak these words from experience, having been walked over on many occasions by "friends". It's pretty disturbing how fucked up our society has become: it's OK to just fornicate and gallavant around willy nilly, but if someone tries to be friendly, watch out, OMG THEY R CREEPY STALKERS LOL KEKEKE! It's pretty fucking ridiculous if you ask me...
Kevin, u are exactly right! seems like the nicer u are, the more people screw u over!. i dont understand it!, and the worst part is when they act like everything is ok when ur around them, then they talk about u behind your back. i hate people like that!!! oh by the way, i wanna come up to MSU in about 2 weeks, so hopefully we'll be able to hang and hit up some fun parties!!! keep it real kev - DOm
that entry wasnt meant to be a mean thing or a nice thing, it wasnt meant to put anyone down, thats why i didnt say names, it was directed at a few people in order to make them realize that sometimes they hurt people and dont realize it. I was trying to make a strong point here, not trying to bring anyone else down, my real point is, if someone has a problem with someone, then thats fine, but they shouldnt hide behind it and talk about people behind their backs, thats just not right, if u have a problem with someone then u should tell them. This entry was in no way directed at you Andrea, because to tell the truth, i have so much respect for you its unbelievable, ur the only person i know who backs up what they say, and stands up for what they believe in, and i respect that SO much! The junior girl comment was not directed at you. As for us falling apart after Spring Break, i dont know why that happened, all i know is that i tried to keep friendships going with everyone, yet no one cared about me enuff to put in a
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I see what you're saying now. I agree that talking behind backs wont solve anything and it's not right. And I'm so glad to hear that I was mistaken and that this entry wasnt meant to hurt people. I'm apologize for not putting enough effort in our friendship. I see how it affectd you, and I know that caring can go a long way. So I hope we get a chance to see each other before you leave... =)
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I noticed this entry wasn't filled with a lot of love. Lots of sarcasim and accusations, though.
"you're not as good as you think you are" do you think this entry was good? It will probably offend a few people ( ... )
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I see what you're saying now. I agree that talking behind backs wont solve anything and it's not right. And I'm so glad to hear that I was mistaken and that this entry wasnt meant to hurt people. I'm apologize for not putting enough effort in our friendship. I see how it affectd you, and I know that caring can go a long way. So I hope we get a chance to see each other before you leave... =)
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