That is messed up :-( I am sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how much this must suck for you. I can only hope that if she does love and care about you she'll get over her own selfish crap to support you.
I agree with nik, not surprisingly. She needs to see you be you.
Every month, I go to transfamily meetings and hear people going through the same thing you are--and a few months later, or a couple years later, I hear them say, "My family's starting to come around."
So give it time. It won't be easy, I know, but she'll come around. You're her child. :)
She does love you- that's why it's so hard for her. Parents want what they believe is best for their child but this isn't always what's actually best for you. She's just going to have to get used to it, and in time she will. Still, I know it makes it so much more difficult for you. This is now, more than ever, the time when you turn to your friends for support and to fill the void that your mother is creating until she can pull it together and act like a loving parent.
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all of a sudden, she'd rather be dead?
oh yeah, my mom's leaving the state because of me.
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I can't imagine how much this must suck for you.
I can only hope that if she does love and care about you she'll get over her own selfish crap to support you.
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Every month, I go to transfamily meetings and hear people going through the same thing you are--and a few months later, or a couple years later, I hear them say, "My family's starting to come around."
So give it time. It won't be easy, I know, but she'll come around. You're her child. :)
~mike~
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I love you lots.
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i love you too roja.
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