all of suck

[doctordeath2103]

Well, I haven't posted in a long time, but that is because I got bored and annoyed with the public forum and how people live their lives by it. That is just me and I respect others desire to and enjoyment of said forum, no disrespect intended

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[internet_chief]

Have you tried confronting those that are bothering you? For all the indirectness that seems to be bothering you, it seems it would be best to touch the issue directly.

[doctordeath2103]

I've confronted mine, I wish everyone else would do the same and stop being so underhanded and secretive about talking about everyone else. If you haven't notice everyone having these issues, I want to trade shoes. This is bigger then me, so there is no point in offering me advice to confront people, and if this post wasn't direct enough to touch the issue bothering me, then so be it.

[internet_chief]

I'd say something more to that. Gossip is a problem, that is a given.

There's usually a natural order to working things out, and quite often, being direct in a social arena such as ours leads to more strife than what we began with. So some speak to others. It's the way things go, in my mind.

I also think there's a distinction not made between gossip and seeking advice, the first being quite harmful, and the other offering more lanes to the solution than they might find themselves. We're people in a world larger than ourselves; sometimes we have to relate to eachother to make the world seem less large. Talking, even complaining to other people also works out aggression that could otherwise come out in a confrontation.

[doctordeath2103]

Point blank, the reasons that spured this post were that some people are very hurt by what people are saying about them behind their backs which are entirely undeserved to the extent they were carried out to, I won't give names, but when seeking advice or venting in public, one should consider the feelings of those around them, including who is being discussed. If people want to seek advice/vent, they can do it in private, it need not be done in public where their opion is heard by all, and if they do vent in public, they should be darn aware of possible backlashes to this.

[cadusa]

George, you hit the nail right on the nose. I've been saying the same thing, to myself at least, for a long time now. It has gotten worse recently and, through the work of enough committed people, things will get better

[caretaker444]

I'm down for anytime between now and when I leave, and any time after I get back. If I could teleport at will I'd be down for just about anytime period.
I miss hanging out with you fuckers.

Rip

[doctordeath2103]

So yeah, I'll be in Wisconsin over break and before that is hectic, maybe Wednesday night, but that is the best I can do or maybe the weekend before the next block starts sometime. Yeah, I miss the old days, things were simpler then.