This one...was interesting. A slightly different perspective than i've ever had. I mean, not like I haven't been the one to weild a whip and leather while standing over someone begging for my control
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Well, in most BDSM relationships, while the submissive is willingly giving power over to the dominant, the submissive is ultimately in control. Safeword spoken, scene stops. Period.
In all BDSM relationships, there is and has to be a willing power exchange. So, while the man in your dreams may have been in control of the scene, ultimately you as submissive had the power to stop anything and everything with the speaking of a single word.
As far as dreaming about it, often when one who is normally dominant dreams of being submissive, they are looking for someone to come in and take control of an aspect of their life that they are not feeling particularly in control of.
The other possiblity of course, is that you are actually wanting to play on the submissive end.
As far as the pony play... no idea.
Any of this ringing true for you? Should be back online at some point this weekend. Comment here and I'll see if eventually.
Well, in all fairness I have been reading a BDSM novel...AND me and William have been talking about some sub/dom play. we're both very dominant people who like to be dominated. So yeah, so far we have no problems taking the reigns in a situation. And we're both loving it. Had quite an exstensive conversation about it last night. More on that in my next blog. So yeah, my mind is just playing out my concious thoughts.
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In all BDSM relationships, there is and has to be a willing power exchange. So, while the man in your dreams may have been in control of the scene, ultimately you as submissive had the power to stop anything and everything with the speaking of a single word.
As far as dreaming about it, often when one who is normally dominant dreams of being submissive, they are looking for someone to come in and take control of an aspect of their life that they are not feeling particularly in control of.
The other possiblity of course, is that you are actually wanting to play on the submissive end.
As far as the pony play... no idea.
Any of this ringing true for you? Should be back online at some point this weekend. Comment here and I'll see if eventually.
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So yeah, my mind is just playing out my concious thoughts.
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