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I don't know what it is with me and female friends here in Eugene. The other night I talked to a girl who is in drug court with me. She wanted to add me as a friend on facebook, and when another friend of her's saw she was about to add me she asked how she knew me. She told her that we have group together at drug court and this friend of her's (who
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Ladyfriends are important and good.
If this keeps happening in multiple relationships it's probably something to look at as you're the common denominator there.
What is it you wish all these women would do or be?
Identify that and then go do and be that. Be and do what you wish they would do and be. See the times in which you've fallen short of that ideal. Own that. Apologize and make restitution if you can, if that feels right (right, not easy). And be easy with yourself about this. This aint about blame. It's only about doing what we can and not fighting what we can't.
We can't change other people, though I know we want to a lot of the time.
I seriously get wanting and needing supportive lady friends. Maybe you can pray for some to come into your life and to be ready for that to happen. And also pray for discernment so you can know who those ladies are gonna be and who can't be that at this time.
Be kind to you. :)
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It's just what came up when I read your post.
It's not like I'm particularly good at it myself. I do think it's helpful though else I wouldn't have offered.
Love to you. :)
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I agree that because this is a reoccurring issue I have to look into myself and my actions. Thanks you.
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Take care, and you're welcome too.
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Theres alot of good advice up here, about being what it is you want others to be like, and to carry yourself the way you want your friends to carry themselves...the law of attraction...
You will attract alot more respectful friends with that attitude and outlook...
I think its noble for you to speak your mind to people who decide to talk things behind your back, and these people always or sometimes seem to get defensive, and I THINK its because deep down they know they are wrong...But some people will go to great length to reason their actions no matter how distorted that process can be...
Stay true to yourself and shrug off the people who have a problem with you or try to interfere in your relationships with others...If someone decides to judge you and not be your friend because of what others tell them, well are those kind of people worth your time¿
Just thoughts...
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