In need of help!

[dolphin_88]

I already posted this at community.livejournal.com/littlehoneybees/ (I don't know if I was able to create the link. If I wasn't, bear with me) but I wanted opinions, suggestions and advice even from those friends who aren't part of it.
So, here's the problem:

In my fourth year in high school I changed class(I don't know if you knew but there are five years of high school in Italy, so that

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[24_amends]

well....you cant just really pretend that nothing has happened and be his best friend again....thats what i tried to do in the same situation and it only got worse...
so i think you have 2 options
1)tell him what you fell (thats gonna suck especially if you re shy)
2)just sort it out and decide that he is only your friend and find another love desire..

I just thing its better to do sth from this 2 options or zour friendship is gonna selfdestruct itself...
hope i helped you at least a bit...

[dolphin_88]

Thanks for your answer. I think I'll pick the second solution: I would never be able to tell him what I feel, I'd be too scared of him cutting me out completely.
Thanks again, you did help. :)

[24_amends]

well im just gonna tell you that i did the same thing...we are no longer friends though..it was hard for me to put up with my feelings and i think he had sth similiar...
its better sometimes to try and lose everything than lose it slow and safely=)
just good luck!=)and i hope you are gonna find the thing you re searching for!=)

[dolphin_88]

That's what I always supposed up to the other day, actually. I always thought he loved me and that our only problem had been bad timing. I just got all insecure and everything after Saturday. Anyway, I'm leaving in two days' time and I'm going to Germany for a month so we'll see how this situation goes when I come home.
Thanks for your comment and your encouragement! :)

[happenings]

Sounds like just bad timing! You've had a long time to straighten out your feelings for him, and I think you should wait until he's single again to show him how you feel. You don't have to outright tell him you like him, but let him know how much you appreciate his friendship and care for him. Your having boyfriends probably makes him think you're not interested in him.

Also, I would love to learn more about the Italian school system! I am so interested in other countries schooling, and I feel like I know almost nothing about the Italian culture--we need to chat some time! :)

[dolphin_88]

Yeah, it is terrible timing! I think that if you look up the expression "bad timing" on the dictionary there is our photo. *lol*
Anyway, thanks for your comment and your support! I'm leaving in two days' time so this situation will have to be on hold for a month until I come back. Let's just hope something happens in the meantime: he and his girlfriend break up or I'm able to get him out of my head.

As for the chat, yeah, it'd be great! Do you have MSN Messenger by any chance? Because that would make it easier. Otherwise I'll just post an introduction to Italian schools in my LJ as soon as I get home from Germany and we can chat through comments. Whichever you prefer. :)

[happenings]

Ahh, well good luck with that! :) I'm sure it will work out if it's supposed to

My MSN email is alyssa@alyssabyoung.com :D

[dolphin_88]

Great! I'll add you as soon as I log in again. :)