Forgiving....

[dolphinlover29]

After over a year of not talking to an old friend......how can you go back to talking to them after they've hurt you so much? I would like to be friends with him again, and he says he would like to be normal friends again......but it's hard to forgive I guess.....

Comments

[lmkoos]

I've actually talked to Chris on this same subject. Saying you want to be friends with someone and whether you're actually capable of being friends again are two separate things. Don't try forcing the friendship, just start out by being civil, and if things fall into place, I'm sure you'll be able to be friends again. *hugs* if things don't work out, that's just life, even if it does hurt.

[chiaki777]

Agreed, there's no need to make an extra effort to try and like someone. If they want to be your friend, be respectful and see where it goes.