the Heartless Bitches Red Flag List and you...all right, and me

[donnaidh_sidhe]

I've been re-reading the Heartless Bitches International site lately, and what a lovely find - I came across it several years ago and it's always been useful. One thing in particular I think that everyone should read is the Manipulator Files' Red Flag List, a list of “warning signs” that mean that a prospective match of any gender is Trouble

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[willdew]

#35, wasn't that even your nickname for one of your exes a long time ago? Freaky.

[willdew]

I went and looked at the list. I think this one also applies:

#22 (in the original numbering.)
He vassilates from day-to-day or week to week as to whether he wants to be in a relationship or not.

[donnaidh_sidhe]

Ah, yes. Of course. But then when you decide to leave, he's back on your doorstep in a panic.

[donnaidh_sidhe]

It was, yeah, but not for the reason mentioned in this list.

[lafinjack]

See also: http://psychoticlettersfrommen.blogspot.com/

[donnaidh_sidhe]

I was ashamed to post it, because I've let every single item on this list slide, and I was thinking of one person in specific for most of them.

[donnaidh_sidhe]

I think I'll be better off assuming the worst of most people who seek me out and being pleasantly surprised when they don't prove me right. :P

[thwak]

Great! Thanks. Now I never, ever get to date again. Fabulous. Oh, well. New season of True Blood starts soon, I guess...

[donnaidh_sidhe]

You're welcome.

[porphyre]

That's a bloody brilliant list. Terrible, but I can check off almost every single one of those for a certain Matthew we know.

[donnaidh_sidhe]

Subtle, that.

[porphyre]

Ah me. Things we wish we knew then, hey? I'm going to save this to show other people. Thank you for sharing.