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[dont_mug_yrself]

I'm so sick of all the passive, nice people. Is it so hard to say what you are thinking? Is it so hard to be a critic? Is it so hard to fucking to be truthful? I'm sick of everyone avoiding being rude at the cost of everyone being lied to constantly. I'm sick of all the people who will restrain themselves for the sake of others feelings,

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[2ezilyamused]

compassion is something one learns steve.. im not saying you havent learned that. im just saying to be compassionate is to care for others feelings.. just because someone is nice,.. doesnt mean they arent truthful... just becasue someone thinks before they speak, doesnt mean they are passive. for most people.. beign rude is a negative thing? maybe its different for you. but idk. i agree that when people lie in order to spare someones feelings it can have a negative outcome. but the reasoning behind the lie is a noble one. even tho it still isnt right. you said that if everyone just told the truth so many problems would be resolved and just disappear.. dont you think that the truth can also CAUSE problems? just as many or maybe more? i sure do. so i get what you're saying.. but sometimes you have to look at it from both perspectives.. ya know?

-jenna

[dont_mug_yrself]

Um, I never said that if someone thinks before they speak they are passive, becasue I know people who do think before they are about to speak, but end up not speaking to spare someone's feelings. This is just plain stupid.

If something is noble but not right, does that mean you still do it? I just did a current event on a rebel leader who lead his followers and ousted their governments leader, who happened to be somewhat good. He was known to shoot mothers and children. This man was unethical, but noble for his cause. Is this to say that what he did was okay because it was noble? I think not.

I was saying that many problems we have today would be slovbed. I never said that new ones wouldn't arise. Don't put words in my mouth.

I look at the other perspective plenty, and I think that it is pussy to obstruct truth, and instill blindness.

[2ezilyamused]

deal with it!! its society, and there is no way to change it.

be who you want to be. you dont like people changing you, so dont go trying to change others. let them be pussies if they want to be. it seems to me that you are very blunt and truthful, but i see more problems from your perspective rather than someone who is saying something nice.

[jimguy]

Shut the fuck up, you deal with it. He didn't say he was trying to change anyone, he said he was sick of it.

[____itsyouiwant]

i agree that blutness is great then conconfrotation.
i would rather have someone be mean and tell me that truth, than be nice and lie to me.

[_dinoroarr]

yeah i agree bluntness is better. but everyone's there own person and not all people can control their own passiveness.. if that's a word.
yeah.
<3

[blownumba4]

sometimes i find myself rewording what i just said because of its bluntness and the person's reaction to it. some people just cant take it and i dont have the heart to see them crumble over something little. i tend to critisize but ive also noticed theres a limit you shouldnt exceed. kind of like the "if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all." you dont have to lie to the person, but you also dont have to go so far into critisizim to hurt them. i wish there was a happy medium. the only way it could work is if the masses decided to change into truthful people, because otherwise a critic stands out as a complainer, and also many assume that they cant point the same critical finger at themselves.

people just dont like to hear the truth
its easier to give up honesty to hear exactly what they want to hear

xoDANAxo

[blownumba4]

I agree. If there is no need to be blunt, why be blunt?
There are many nice people out there that also tell the truth.
Everyone just has to learn when it is the right time to be blunt.
Or when you tell someone the truth, people dont have to come on so strong.
Just my thoughts.

Maddie

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[anonymous]

Steve lots apeople cant help being passive it just part of there personallity. Lots of people are scared of speakin there mind becasue of what people will think of them. Alot of them would want to be blunt but they just fear it.

-danny

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[dont_mug_yrself]

So fear is okay? I think not. Fear is not okay. Fear is the root of ALL EVIL! GAGAGGAHHAHAHAHA evil. If you fear, you are evil. Now go and stop being afraid all of you fearful fearmongerz.