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doombuggie

wow a public post...

Oct 16, 2009 14:27

this was a reply i just posted to a comment on a friends post about marriage... i had to share it here cause i found it to be a good representation of how i feel and slightly humorous at the same time ( Read more... )

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poisonedgrace October 16 2009, 19:35:23 UTC

also:
http://speaklolspeak.com/page/LOLspeak+Wedding+Vows

:D

doombuggie October 16 2009, 19:44:27 UTC

priceless.. if they ever fix healthcare and shit so that i can marry my partner of over 15 years without losing the ability to afford my medical care or get assistance in doing so.. we might just use some of these :)

nightshade_ks October 16 2009, 20:49:11 UTC

you said to leave a comment,,,

lorigrrl October 16 2009, 22:17:01 UTC

How is Jen?

doombuggie October 16 2009, 23:43:41 UTC

glad you are doing better, i have been following all your posts and stuff, once you get into the shit in the filter and see where i have been recently you will understand better why i havent commented and such... jen isnt the same as she used to be, she fell a few years back at work and had to be rushed to the ER with a massive concussion and hasnt been able to go back to work. she has some issues now and hardly ever leaves the house, our relationship is stable, but between her issues and lack of medical care for the head injury and my issues and steady slide downhill and minimal ability to just barely function our relationship needs a lot of work for it to be where i want it now that i am recovering unfortunately. you know how it is, if you dont take care of the house, eventually it falls apart and i have been incapable of doing anything beyond assuring very basic needs for living were met for a long time now. anyways you will see what i am talking about as you read all the dump i posted last night. just know that even with the ( ... )

jenmarie October 17 2009, 21:57:02 UTC

This is exactly how I feel about the whole topic.

doombuggie October 17 2009, 22:40:38 UTC

i am in a situation where i cant get married legally without losing my healthcare.. but my partner of 15 years and i still represent ourselves to everyone as husband and wife, and i consider her mom to be my mother-in-law and just as much "mom" as my own is.. and honestly going through the legal motions to confirm those feelings to a judge or a priest just seems like a lot of effort with very little outcome as we have all the right shit filed so that if something happens to me my partner has full control over every aspect of my life and likewise with me if something happens to her.. why bother with going before a judge now?