wow. amazing how MUCH we match on this topic. I could have written this entry myself. As time has marched on I've come to the realization that even if I do not have an active social life, I am not lonely AT. ALL. and I would rather be honest and alone with what I perceive to be true, than living a lie but in the company of others.
i have also been told that i'm blunt. i do not intend to be blunt. i just say what i see and what I feel, and i also try very hard to be kind. sometimes i suppose people experience bluntness more than kindness. :(
also to say, that my father was one of those people who would never talk about his mean behavior. He would wake up the day after one of his tirades and he would be all daisies and sunshine and we were supposed to understand that this was some form of apology. It doesn't work like that. I need to address what happened openly and directly and with words.
it's important to know that you've been a good friend to yourself.
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i have also been told that i'm blunt. i do not intend to be blunt. i just say what i see and what I feel, and i also try very hard to be kind. sometimes i suppose people experience bluntness more than kindness. :(
also to say, that my father was one of those people who would never talk about his mean behavior. He would wake up the day after one of his tirades and he would be all daisies and sunshine and we were supposed to understand that this was some form of apology. It doesn't work like that. I need to address what happened openly and directly and with words.
it's important to know that you've been a good friend to yourself.
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