despite all prior verbalization that it will be OK if things dont turn out well, or well...how i hypothetically WANT them to turn out, in MO...I WILL BE REALLY SAD AND CRUSHED
( Read more... )
And if you come home crushed, we'll all help put the pieces back together. Keep in mind, in lieu of his confusion, that he's still pretty young. And a boy. They never know what they want, especially at that age! Hell, you and I have just barely figured out what we want and we're 4 years older! That being said: Things will work out in what ever way is best. I will be here to love and support you when you get home. If we celebrate, I will bring wine. If we are sad, I will bring wine. Either way we'll get ferschnoshked!
An you will never know unless you try! And I think it's great that you are! You are doing whats best for you. How much regret would you have if you never took the chance to find out? At least now you are giving yourself the opportunity to be happy if it does work out..and to heal if it doesn't. And maybe I'm totally off track since I know nothing of what this situation is about. Either way...I'll come around to try to make you laugh with whatever happens! I know we don't know each other well...but I think you're awesome and I wanna see you happy too!! ^_^
I think that you just need to relax. You are an amazing person and if he liked you from phone/internet I am positive he'll love you in person. If he doesn't then he is an idiot and at least you found out now.
Just relax and enjoy your trip. There is no way that anyone could not love you. As for him going with you if things work out, a maybe is good. At least he is willing to think about it. a lot can happen in two years. Just focus on the now for the moment and enjoy it.
Comments 4
Keep in mind, in lieu of his confusion, that he's still pretty young. And a boy. They never know what they want, especially at that age! Hell, you and I have just barely figured out what we want and we're 4 years older!
That being said:
Things will work out in what ever way is best. I will be here to love and support you when you get home. If we celebrate, I will bring wine. If we are sad, I will bring wine. Either way we'll get ferschnoshked!
Reply
Reply
Reply
Just relax and enjoy your trip. There is no way that anyone could not love you. As for him going with you if things work out, a maybe is good. At least he is willing to think about it. a lot can happen in two years. Just focus on the now for the moment and enjoy it.
Reply
Leave a comment