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dragonangel1369

Halloween and life update

Oct 30, 2006 22:24

I would like to thank those people who showed up for our Halloween party this past Saturday. The house and yard looked better than they ever have, we had lots of new decorations and lighting effects, and the bonfire was a very nice addition. Even the wooden tombstones we cut and painted turned out looking great! I was happy to have finally found ( Read more... )

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reiblue October 31 2006, 07:16:45 UTC

*hugs* Sorry to hear that the party didn't go well wish we could have been up in knoxville for it. JC called me today to tell me about the wonderful job you all did with your place and please send me pictures he said you got a few. Sorry that people can't just honest and let you know if the are not comfortable with the current situation, but its not their life so they can get the Hell over it..

*hugs*

silverdawnatl October 31 2006, 13:30:01 UTC

Um....
Even with a bunch of slacker no shows I hope you had a good party.

*hughs*?

S~

dragonangel1369 November 1 2006, 23:58:37 UTC

it was really nice overall, I was just very hurt that people a) didn't show and b) didn't let me know why. other than a lack of people, it was, quite possibly, the best party yet. :) thanks to both!

tomdpimp October 31 2006, 13:32:48 UTC

Creepiest! Yeah!

Don't worry about it, things will get better. :)

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dragonangel1369 November 2 2006, 00:02:45 UTC

I hope so. and I appreciate the few people who had the balls to leave feedback, I really do. it lets me know where I stand with people. if they think I'm a horrible person and want to stay away, that's their problem, and their loss. if they can't forgive me AND Kain *AND* Rick for our mistakes made, then they need to look inside themselves and deal with their own issues, because there's probably a lot of self-forgiveness they're in need of too. furthermore, if they can't be happy for me that I'm finally truly and honestly happy in my life, and that I finally had the courage and strength to follow my heart and do the right thing for all involved, and that I finally came clean about my own issues to everyone, most especially Kain, then they were never truly my friends to begin with and I don't need them or their negativity in my life. so mote it be. thanks again for coming btw! Clue kicked ass!! :)

technoir October 31 2006, 13:56:55 UTC

One, I did not know there was a party. I certainly was not invited ( ... )

sorry. dragonangel1369 November 1 2006, 23:35:09 UTC

I emailed you, but maybe I had the wrong address. I'll have to go and look. I was just really freaked out by nobody showing up, and I have a tendency to take things too personally sometimes, especially in times of great stress and not feeling well physically on top of everything. I'm sorry if I got snippy, and no, my high school career was a living hell. and yes, Rick's a great guy when he's not drunk, which he hasn't been since Angela's last party. he's quit, completely, for well over a year and hasn't touched anything but the occasional single beer every couple of months. I'm not trying to assume anything, but when everybody knows I've done this same party every year the same saturday night before daylight savings time hits ever since I moved up here, it really hurts that nobody gave a shit about coming out to socialize with me. I do understand the emails went out a bit late this year, and I do understand that a lot of people had prior committments and such because of it, but I thought I had more people up here who actually enjoyed ( ... )

A response. clockwork_brain October 31 2006, 19:23:13 UTC

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Re: A response. dragonangel1369 November 1 2006, 23:55:42 UTC

I understand that, and I fully respect that. I fully respect your beliefs, and I appreciate your expressing them to me openly and not beating around the bush with your feelings on the subject. like anyone, I don't like to be judged, but I thought people would at least have the courtesy to tell me shit like this to my face instead of being passive-agressive about it, and for that, I thank you very much. in my defense, let me say only this, Kain was warned, repeatedly, and he chose his whiskey over his wife, REPEATEDLY. he did nothing to get himself the help he needed, despite my asking him for months, and showed no interest in changing anything. I divorced my first husband for the same reason, and he knew that from the start. I told Kain from the beginning, back in Douglasville in 2000, that his drinking would eventually become an issue for us if he didn't cut back a bit. I'm not going to mince words. I will not live my life like that, and I made it clear to him in the beginning. everything else, including the physical aspects and ( ... )

Re: A response. dragonangel1369 November 1 2006, 23:55:59 UTC

as for Darnell, you have NO idea what that two-faced lying bitch is capable of, so again, please don't judge until you have all the facts. we're currently making payment arrangements to hire an attorney, as well as looking into taking legal action against her and pressing criminal charges for fraud, tampering with the US Postal service, and identity theft. I had to call 911 last weekend because she came to get her car with the wrecker and was threatening to "go through" Rick to get into the house herself because she was convinced we were hiding some of her stuff, all of which we'd already given back to her before he even moved out. their entire relationship was based on lies, and on the fact that she wanted the extra paycheck and a daddy for her kids. that's it. plain and simple. she lied to him, to me, to his parents, to her own children. she wouldn't know love or how to treat a "loved" one if it bit her in the ass. in fact, her "best friend" from work took her to court recently for child neglect trying to get custody of her oldest ( ... )