I found you by accident but I'm glad I did. I love the way you express yourself. I see myself in your words and experiences.
I had a miscarriage 6 years ago next month. I think if I had kids by now, I wouldn't still be bothered by it. Or maybe if it hadn't been the child of my first love. Maybe if it just hadn't happened the way it did.
People don't always understand how it can effect you...but in a way it makes you stronger. I read that you weren't sure you could have kids...maybe just knowing you were pregnant for a bit gives you some hope?
Anyways, I just wanted to comment and let you know that I'm adding you. I hope you don't mind. I don't really keep up with my lj much anymore but if you want to add me back, that would be great.
I am feeling much better, and thank you for the kind words... I added you back, and the fraggles on your page made me smile instantly. I love new kinships, internet or otherwise. Knowing I was pregnant for a while really DID do just that. It gave me some hope. We're going to wait a few months and try again, and I update from time to time to document my life...if only for me, and you're welcome to peek in on it. Don't mind at all. Hope to get to know you better, and thank you again. Your comment was an unexpected and welcome surprise.
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I had a miscarriage 6 years ago next month. I think if I had kids by now, I wouldn't still be bothered by it. Or maybe if it hadn't been the child of my first love. Maybe if it just hadn't happened the way it did.
People don't always understand how it can effect you...but in a way it makes you stronger. I read that you weren't sure you could have kids...maybe just knowing you were pregnant for a bit gives you some hope?
Anyways, I just wanted to comment and let you know that I'm adding you. I hope you don't mind. I don't really keep up with my lj much anymore but if you want to add me back, that would be great.
I hope you are feeling much better...
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