Scew it, I"ll be the bad guy......

[dragonflytears]

Ok I wasn't going to say anything about the things that have been posted b/c it ain't my place but I just changed my mind. Woman's perrogative. SO Im going to lay it all out. Keep in mind however, that coming from me it is only what was said to me so you will have to check out the sources yourself but this is what I have heard

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[yaoi_gaymer]

*rubs the temples of his forehead and closes his eyes tightly as if fighting a migraine* So yet again, another case of misinformation and misunderstanding brought across boundaries and then taken in a different context than it should be. With that being the backdrop, feelings get hurt, words get thrown, and yet again, no one bothers delving into the heart of the matter, having the opposing parties talk it out, and random other friends getting involved. GLAD I was on the outside of this one

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[loziana]

just so i am clear in this. i am posting to say none of this is my business one way or the other but like jase said i had no idea who was being talked about until outside parties told us. that being said yes i defended joe but all i said was that i knew he didn't have a crush on mer. that and i felt that i wanted the drama to stay out of my house. that is my take on all drama at this point leave it outside my house and i am staying out of it. the only reason i am posting in reply to any of this at all is to say that yes i will defend a friend who is being treated unfairly or unjustly but i would prefer that my name and my household in general be left out of this.

Hoping the best for all involved
Tonya

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[dragonflytears]

Rest assured dear no one intends to bring it to your doorstep. You can sleep peacefully knowing that I personally won't allow any in this house to go your way and I have the car!!! I fully expect you to defend your friends and we will defend ours however at this point we agree that joe isn't the culprit. Tony started it but there were instigaters and my job is to shed light on ALL the facts. Love Joe to death and it may come as a shock but when I first learned of it, I defended him. I would be dishonest if I didn't say I even questioned the extent of his feelings for mer however I wasn't going there. None of my business. I just want everything on the table and far as Im concerned...falsly accused 3 here isnt his enemy. I have no qualms with him at the moment. Those who I do Know it..and if they don't, They will soon. But rest assured no one is bringing you into anything. Whether or not you step in is your business. Peace out.

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[dragonflytears]

Just trying to help clear things up. I wasn't happy that Joe thought I was party 3. I so was not party 3 and in my opinion the messengers need to stay out of things that aren't their business. I bow my head in shame...Im guilty too but I am not hiding under false pretenses of good will towards friends. Kimmi and if jake was involved, him too have every right to imform mutual friends of things being said or directed toward them. Hell its america. However when I find out that the reason tony first went off is b/c of her or them once again under false concern repeating things that should be left alone..it pisses me off. And then to claim neutrality!!!! Lot of nerve if you ask me. Hell if someone told me they had a crush on a married friend I wouldn't go tell them b/c it benefits nothing. If Joe did have a crush, big whoop! It wasn't going to go anywhere so why go to her boyfriend and get him all riled up for nothing? Malicious intent if you ask me. Reguardless I am letting it be known here and now....whether or not you and Joe considere

[dzioba_d]

HEY LAURA,

If you are not involved then making a post detailing what you percieve, (That means what you think) happened is causing DRAMA!!!

Idiot

Devin