I'll say it too...you are not a bad person. We are socialized not to get angry, to forgive and forget, blah, blah, blah. You made some mistakes, but they are the kind that come from love, and you will learn from them. I know it sucks, and you feel like shit, but don't beat yourself up.
I'm sorry things turned so sour.Give yourself permission to cycle through the wheel of everything---going there just means that's where you are.Now, at least, he's out & everything that's been bottled is also out. I"m sorry about the bad timing.Lots of lessons here, though. About not letting what happens at work enter your safe space--home, whenever that is possible.Not waiting to express yourself. Maintaining boundaries. And being a "bitch" when you need to be (which, by the way, you are not---your emotions in a particular moment do not stamp you irrevocably). ~Breathe~ Take time in the week ahead to just be yourself & figure out what you need & want over the next blank year of possibilities and adventures.
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~Breathe~
Take time in the week ahead to just be yourself & figure out what you need & want over the next blank year of possibilities and adventures.
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