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[dramachick]

Anybody else feel like you missed the part of starting college where everyone became friends with each other. Because I certainly do. I end up walking to all my classes alone, no suprise since I know no one in any of them, but then I see everyone else with at least 2 or 3 people to walk with, and these are not all upper classmen either. Where was I

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[saw_fia]

so, maybe its not my place to say this to u but being in a new position just like u.. i think u should just go up 2 people and say, hi my name is.. it strikes conversation so easily.. like tell them where ur from, ask about clubs.. i have found that people like courage in college! gL

[supergal757]

I know exactly what your'e talking about. :). But it is only the first couple of weeks. Some people are just really quick at finding a group. Some people take a little longer. Everyones different.

[bagelbrain]

i had the same problem cos alot of ppl roomed with their friends from orientation and no one in my group was super close. The people I'm closest too ended up being the girls living right around me.

its really tough but i left the door open and went to other rooms and just introduced myself..asked what they were up to..and hung out. thats how ro and i met!

im here for ya!

[socopunk]

I felt the same way you did. The first few weeks the only real friend I had was Tara, and we ended up meeting a group of people right away. However, they werent as cool as we thought, after you get to know some people you realize that the way the come of as at first is not always a good judge of who they really are. I think that happens a lot, so you will probably find a lot of people are either already in the same boat as you, or they will be soon. So just be open to meeting people. Something as little as a hey wats up or something to the kid next to you in class or when you see someone from a class outside of that class just smile or say hi. Once you make a few friends they will introduce you to the friends they have made and before you know it you will feel much better and have a whole bunch of friends :)

[aznvietgrl545]

i know whAt you mean...lol...it takes time though..you'll meet tons of new people lauren..dont sweat it