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Aug 10, 2005 13:44

goddammnit! i am so completely and utterly fed up with danny b's bullshit. we havent been dating for almost 2 years and he is still hassling me. give it up already! so we had a bit of a party at my house in which i ended up kissing danny c. we had a really long talk that night and i had just never ever felt like anyone cared as much about me as he ( Read more... )

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arfur_rockford August 10 2005, 15:12:09 UTC
Becca,

ohhhh, my good friend and lover of assholes. okay- listen. I have been in some shitty-ass relationships before. Where they know just what to say to really get to me- and in saying those things, i feel obligated to defend myself, and better myself until they can stop saying those things.

BUT- it's best to just not respond at all. I know it feels good to be angry at this guy, but he will continue to bother you unless you just ignore him completely. just don't interact with him at all- then you will not only not have to deal with him, you will forget about him, and the more you forget about him the less his words mean, and the less he'll be able to hurt you.

it's weird advice. i don't normally give advice, but it's really painful to see someone i care about having to deal with this sort of shithead type character.

ohhh, i guess that's it.

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