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dramaqueen121

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Sep 07, 2005 19:04

Life has been a blur latley. Nothing exciting has really happened. I am trying to get used to the weekends here. Last weekend I went to the lake house with Andrea and Joe. It was so much fun. I have started going to the Living Room every monday night and tonight is the first night of D-group. I just hope to meet some really cool people. So far, I ( Read more... )

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spicycucumber September 8 2005, 00:22:15 UTC

I can do things with people and not get attached. That would be the "casual" part about it. There are no feelings involved and generally in those situations, I don't WANT feelings to be involved.

dramaqueen121 September 8 2005, 01:54:11 UTC

well you are a rare exception

englshjmpr September 8 2005, 04:59:32 UTC

I don't know if I think that's everything (sex and more) is meant only for marriage. If that's true then marriages would be typically unhappy because we'd be back to arranged marriages and most wouldn't be compatible...also, you're assuming that your God is everyone's God. Do needy athiests think the same thing? What about Christians that aren't needy. Like I'd like to think I'm not needy. I have a great relationship and a great sex life. And I'm not married...I'm not married and I'm happy anyway...It is possible.

dramaqueen121 September 8 2005, 11:13:30 UTC

It's difficult to explain for that very reason. We don't all worship the same God. However, I beleive that there is only one God and that He intended sex for marrige whether you worship Him or not. I suppose it was more of a personal reflection. I'm sure you are happy, however I wouldn't be. I'm not talking about arranged marriges here at all. Christians do it all the time. You don't have to have sex with a person before you get married to know that it will work out. Pysical stuff should not be what a relationship is based on. I know plenty of people that got married without doing physical stuff until after they were married and they are perfectly happy. In fact I read in an artical that Christian women claim to be more sexually satisfied that non Christian women (study done by USA today). Anyway, I don't expect everyone to agree with me. It's just how I feel.

englshjmpr September 9 2005, 13:51:35 UTC

I know that's how you feel. And I wasn't attacking you which is what I think you feel like (but I may be wrong) I wasn't just talking about sex. I know that people can get married without having sex and be happy. I know people like that too. I don't surround myself with people who lose their virginity at 13, I know people who wait, I know people who plan on never having sex at all, ever. I know lots of people and I see lots of people. And I've seen people who have seriously hurt themselves with a choice to have sex, I've seen people hurt themselves with other choices too. I know sex shouldn't be the foundation of a relationship but it also shouldn't be taboo either. You had said in your original post that you weren't just talking about sex, so my comment wasn't just talking about sex either. And guess what, I know NON Christians who have waited until marriage to have sex. So personally, I think it's the person and not the religion. I think it's a personal choice and I don't think it's wrong. But then again I'm not religious,so that ( ... )