jackasses

[dreamsoft]

There are people who love to dissect anyone but themselves.... and who won't believe anything other than their own opinions, even when contraries stare them in the face

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[tmcm]

Hey, I'm sorry for offending you. I really didn't mean for it to get so heavy and personal. I was trying to have a lighthearted banter thing - and I drank a bottle of wine. Sorry for letting it get out of control.

[dreamsoft]

I don't know under what definition personally cutting someone down is the same as "lighthearted banter". Especially when you've yet to have a real conversation with that person (when you get to know someone, the situation is slightly different, but you've not done that yet

[tmcm]

I wasn't trying to cut you down. Didn't mean for all of this to be taken so personally. Again, sorry for all the crap.

[tmcm]

no hard feelings?

[dreamsoft]

There never are hard feelings; ie feelings of aggression beyond initial human reaction/and then understanding... because that would be a negative affect on my life - one with no reason to be there - and what is the point?

As I've done every time since I've met you, I've attempted to TALK to you, human to human, without presupposing you will act a certain way. Should I be in an interaction with you again, I will be that way again, for that is the kind of person I am.

At the same time, I'm not going to seek out interactions with someone who has a tendency to act in the manner you have thus far.

Dunno, part of me wants to feel your apology is genuine and you won't be an asshole the next time you interact with me, part of me says "that's just how he is and he has no desire to change".

Time will tell; my mind is open.

[tmcm]

I won't be an asshole. Water under the bridge.