DIVORCE

[drewandian]

I have an ex-husband. It's finally official. What started four years ago when J and I were having major issues with communicating and our marriage changed, when he pushed me and M together and when I fell hard for her packed up and walked out, when he started seeing his current gf and it became clear that we were permanently separated and there was

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[abracah]

Yay for you. Such a positive attitude! Looking ahead to a great new life. I will right here watching out for you.

[drewandian]

Thanks. There's really no point in not having a positive attitude with this new step. I've, well we've both, wanted this for a while and as much as I'd love for him to be like "hey here's half the money to cover the cost", I know it won't happen so I did what I always do and took charge of the situation. It really is the last piece that had to fall into place for me to truly move on, so it's good.

Things are progressing with our co-parenting efforts; his gf and I have been doing what we have to in order to get along. It's like a weight has been lifted. It's all good stuff. :)