Comments | drglass44: Anybody please respond

drglass44

Anybody please respond

Jun 25, 2004 17:42

So tell me what I should do.............

I am so nice that after I get cheated on, I decide to accept the fact that it was "misplaced feelings" and I let her continue to hang out with him. So now, I ask, what do I get out of this?.... my girlfriend goin out and having a wonderful time doing things with this guy that we have never done in our 3 ( Read more... )

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cmufranchise June 26 2004, 00:44:57 UTC

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bridgedawg June 26 2004, 15:26:40 UTC

Alright. I don't think you even know me, but I'm a friend of Corey's, and have some input on this.

The fact that you said something like "and I let her continue to hang out with him". Ahh...let's not go there. Corey is her own person, and can (and I assume..will) do whatever she wants. Yeah, it's not something you like, but they are friends. Would she ever tell you not to hang out with friends of the female persuasion?

I know it's tricky, because my boyfriend has a friend that he plays paintball with every week, that happens to be a girl. He plays with a group, but she's always involved. I don't like it much, but I think it's better that I know about it, so he's not keeping secrets from me.

Just trust Corey, and know that she loves you..and that she'll do what she knows is best. Don't say "fuck it" to the whole thing..not over something like this. You should be happy she's having fun..even if it hurts your ego a little bit.

drglass44 June 28 2004, 03:37:30 UTC

Well thank you both very much. I think I made the decision to try and talk to him and get to know him. I am good enough to do that. Thanks Mike.

I know who you are bridge, i read Corey's journal enough, heh.
In the past, it has happened that people were asked to stop talking to a certain person, and I would like to think that it was an immature thing to do. And I never once asked Corey to not see him. I can't do that. So dont think of me as a bad guy. But just know that I have been through something that most people can't say that they have. And it hurts more than they know. Just dont take this as an attack at Corey. I love her to death. I just happen to have problems dealing with this, and I just needed some input. Thanks bridge.

bridgedawg June 28 2004, 16:19:24 UTC

After re-reading my comment, I realize that I came off extremely rude. I didn't mean to sound that way at all. I'm glad you know who I am, and I'm glad that you considered my advice. Sorry for it sounding the way it did though...I didn't mean to sound like a jerk. I'm very glad that you're going to try to get to know the person, I'm sure that once you do, all of your insecurities can be layed to rest. Good luck! :-D

ihatethislife June 29 2004, 01:13:42 UTC

ILU kid...
don't let love getcha down.
i've been in your situation and that is the worst feeling when you know the person you're with is with someone they've cheated on you with.
you feel like, well if her feelings for me didn't stop her before, why would they now?
but, i don't really know your situation...
but if it's something that is hurting you, maybe it's time for a change...?
you're too good to be hurting!
call me if u need to talk... 313-207-4388

__faded_photos July 20 2004, 18:42:27 UTC

why dont you stop trying to hook up with my boyfriend? kay thanks.

ihatethislife July 20 2004, 20:23:35 UTC

lol... sorry, you're taking things the wrong way.
and if i WAS trying to hook up with your boyfriend, i would not do it in his journal. in front of his girlfriend. wtf.

been there, done that, i was just trying to give some friendly advice :)