What am I doing wrong??

[drinksweettea]

What is it about me that makes men see me as only a friend? As "One of the GUYS!" They are never intrested in me, and as if that in itself isnt bad enough, they ALWAYS seem to be intrested in one of my friends

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[tweedldum9]

You will find that person, Shannon. It just hasn't happened yet.

And the reason people make comments like "She's wearing a dress!" is because we all know your style. I like it. It's just that the only times I've seen you in a dress were at formal dances, where girls are "supposed" to do that.

You will find him. It sucks in the short run, but you will appreciate it all the more when it comes along.

Gosh, I hope that was comforting... I think I worded that last part kinda oddly...

to reiterate:

[hokuopio]

"If u could promise me anything..what would it be: that you will always be worthy or what you want. never feel like you don't deserve happiness (and i mean that in the most broad sense)"

"you've worked hard and you've suffered a bit, and i think that you have awhole a shipload of good coming your way. i love you ShannonM!!"

i mean both of those comments very sincerely. keep your head up, kiddo. you just came out of a poopy relationship into a...um...unfulfilling one, and you're bound to feel "undesired."

but that just ain't riiiiiigh!

go out every morning thinking, "DAMN i look good today." other people will notice. believe me. and i'm not saying you should turn hoochiemama to get attnetion, just be your regular bueno self, but radiate hotness.
does that make sense?
like sometimes, i'll wear my rose in my hair--just that little touch--and i feel like i could seduce an entire locker room of hot guys.
not that i would..
necesssarily...

:)

you're great!

thanks you guys.

[drinksweettea]

it makes me feel better knowing i have friends that love me and love who i am.