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[drksugarcult]

Have you ever had something that you loved, but at some point you lost it. Then at another time it was just within your grasp, but again it falls away. How do you end the cycle? How do you achieve your goal of once again having that thing that you love? I have asked myself this a million and one times, and have never figured it out. It is to my

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[anonymous]

If it has come and gone this much it probably was not meant to be there in the first place. Move on.

[drksugarcult]

I must say that whomever left this post is too narrow of mind to understand what was meant, this post was meant for other to leave personal experiences and insight. Not to leave your personal opinion!!!

[anonymous]

I am not narrow of mind (and by the way you sound like a Chinese Fortune Cookie). It has been my experience that when things repeatedly do not work out, they were never meant to work out in the first place. A cynic? I am not! Realistic? We are getting somewhere. Life lessons are not always dressed in Versace, sometimes they are draped in sandpaper. (now I am sounding like a Chinese Fortune Cookie).

[mermaidcatch]

I had a huge a crush on a guy for a very, very, very long time. For a few years, in fact. I thought I would marry him some day. I would get crushes on other guys and I would date other guys, but he was way more important to me than they were. We had been friends for a REALLY long time, too. He was and is a dear friend, but it just wasn't meant to be. We weren't destined for a romantic relationship, and I understand that now. Sometimes it seemed like we had a chance, but it never happened. It always made me jealous to think that some chic is going to come along someday and mean more to him than I do (besides like...his mom and sister) but I realized that sometimes, a man and a woman will have a profound, inexplicable connection , but (contrary to what Hollywood would have us to believe) those 2 individuauls will not be right for eachother in a romantic sense. I believe that connections like that run deeper than the romantic. At first I thought it was more of a fraternal love, but I think it runs deeper still. I think it's the way that

[anonymous]

I completely understand where you're coming from. You have no idea. And trust me, I ask myself those questions just about every day, and still have not been able to have a full grasp on the answers.

When will this end?
When will I, for once, be Happy in each and every aspect?