Love Sucks!

[drummerboy83]

So lately Andrea and I have been arguing alot over stupid stuff, and its because were both stressed about the wedding and all the money that we have to put out. We have never argued this much! Ive talked to her about it and we both feel the same way. I just hate feeling so far apart when were really close. I hate to fight, but I know it comes with

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[flitterflutter]

Weddings are notoriously stressful. I know it's hard, but try not to get caught up in the details. Sure, it's supposed to be about what you guys want and your special day and all ... But somehow that seems to get lost in the midst of caterers and florists and out of town relatives and in laws and so on ... Just try to take time once in a while for just the two of you. Maybe pick one day (if you can't make it away on a vacation right now) where you both have a day off, or both call in sick (wink wink) and promise NOT TO TALK ABOUT THE WEDDING for 24 hours. No phone calls, no food or fabric samples, no trying to figure out seating or hotel arrangements ... Just you and your bride and candles and a romantic dinner and the two of you remembering all the reasons you're doing this in the first place - because you love each other and love being together and want to do this forever

[drummerboy83]

Actucally you make complete sense! I try to plan thos things but she is what you call a spontaneous person. So she changes her mind every second she gets the chance. I know I can make it through this I just need to figure out how to deal with her P.M.S!

[shortblondegirl]

just run off to vegas and get hitched tomorrow.. its cheap .. lol thats what id do