am sitting at the kitchen counter of my friend's cousin's big gorgeous log cabin while they are away on business. ahh this place is like a castle. my friends are at the bar right now, so i'm just hanging out, listening to cds and fucking around on the computer. i just took what was the world's greatest bubble bath in their huge spa bathtub. oh ( Read more... )

Taking a break from my Holocaust paper...

lately:

+yesterday night was the q+a that meg and i organized. it turned out great, 19 people came including us, and i really thought it was successful. we had a good discussion about some things like allies, gay sex, best and worst things about being glbt on campus, being a person of color and glbt, etc ( Read more... )

from the responses of some of the friends of my suitemate's boyfriend on his xanga- after disgusting pictures of me and two partially naked assholes were posted:

"and does she not like boys because she's a dyke?

or is it because she's fat?"

"and tom, maybe it's both, that she doesn't like boys because she is a fat dyke."

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Translating Identity Conference.... so amazing. It really turned out incredible. Friday night we were all freaking out because of the microphone thing, and then Jac fucking took care of business and we were set. We stayed up all night long- first went to Price Chopper, then we went and got the microphone, then i made some thank you signs, the ( Read more... )

I am totally in the free to be office right now by myself eating taco salad and listening to video killed the radio star on iTunes. abuse my member privileges much? yeah. hahaha. i have to go to women's studies in 10 min and turn in my paper on transgenderism.

here's some quotes from my new bible: gender outlaw by kate bornstein.

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mm so today ( Read more... )

Tonight I went to the Free To Be meeting as I always do on Monday nights. I just want to say that I really love that they listen to each other, and me, and validate peoples' feelings. It's hard when you care so much about some stuff and most of the people around you don't understand why it's such a big deal, or why it's so important, or why it ( Read more... )

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today was absolutely fantastisch. first, my english class, the ONLY class i have mon-wed-fri was cancelled today due to mysterious circumstances. wicked hot. sparky, leanne and i were going to the salon this afternoon but they keep fucking up and apparently couldnt do our stuff today after all. i was so excited to get my haircut so we called ( Read more... )

"Have you ever noticed that shortly after making friends with a lesbian or gay man, they tell you their coming-out story? His or her portion of the world's truth is somewhere in that story."

Kate Bornstein is so gorgeous. Everybody should read "Gender Outlaw".