friendships goodbye

[e4_angelgrl]

I feel like I have no one left. I don't know what ever happened, but I feel like I am losing everyone I considered to be a friend the last few years. I have been very down about this lately and today just blew me over the edge when someone was talking smack about how I supposedly mistreated a friend

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*HUG**HUG**HUG*

[emuangel]

Hun, you know you'll always have me around as a friend. Heck you can't get rid of me you're living with me for the third year, the only way this will end is probably when we graduate and even then our friendship won't, we have what I'm hoping will be a life-long friendship. You're one of my very best friends who has been there for me through I believe like everything good and bad I've gone through since starting college, I hope you can say the same about me, and I never wan that to end. Glad I could make you laugh and smile with my peace offerings last night (at least that's one thing I can say I can do when you're upset) hope it made you feel better. And NEVER, EVER forget that I'm always here for you, am your friend and always will be.
Luv, your roomie,
Jen
P.S. sorry for the long comment, but I needed to write it and it should be longer for all I want to say but hopefully this is enough.
P.P.S. can this count as a post on LJ for me since I haven't updated in who knows how long? LOL

Re: *HUG**HUG**HUG*

[e4_angelgrl]

I love my roommates and I know that you care about me, which is why I left both of you on my lj friends list. Jen, I definately consider you to be my best friend and certainly a life long friend. We won't be living together and inseparable for ever, but I know we will always have our times together. Our bond cannot be broken. Thanks for the peace offerings last night, it was pretty humerous, so how could have I not smiled about it.

[ingecredible]

That goes for me too. I'm here for you, and I understand the whole communication thing... I'm bad at starting conversations because I don't want to bother people.

I may not be able to hear very well, but I'm a good listener.

[e4_angelgrl]

I heart my roommates! I know that you three will always be here for me and each of you have your different ways of helping me.

[nocturnalshoujo]

meow? Don't let people get you down! I think I've told you this before...some people are just assholes and like to start conflict to be the center of someone else's conversation, I have yet to know why this happens, perhaps they were dropped too many times by their parents? j/k
No but seriously, if you are anything like how I remember you, just be yourself and remain optomistic (you know I can't spell). We all go through funks and this is just a valley in the middle of two peaks. *^_^* So hang in there!!!
You know I still <3 you!
-Heather
japanese word of the day - shiawase (she-ah-wah-say) - happy

[e4_angelgrl]

I had really just needed to calm down. Like one of my friends told me is that I need to just not let it bother me, but she told that after it was already bothering me. I actually learned the reasoning of why people treat other people badly in my health class last year. My roommate reminded me of it when she was trying to cheer me up. It is called the teeter-totter effect because they are putting other people down to make them feel higher/better than others. I don't know if you actually wanted the reasoning or not.

LOL... I love you for giving a japanese word of the day! It is still fun and I think I still remember most of the words I learned sophomore year eventhough I don't use some of them as much.