Where do you go home to?

[eaquity]

Ungrateful little bastard that i am, i come to see why i don't talk much.
What could you possibly say? You're cute, but not that much more. Social candy.
Rubbish, i say. We both know you've got your wits about you.
So, what's the point? Is it blame?
Were i to get screwed over for listening to you, do you think i'd look to you for compensation?

If i were

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Where do you go Home to?

[thealley]

It all depends if you have A home I suppose. But when you embark on a journey to find yourself, even if you aren't looking, when you don't look inside yourself first you might not find home outside of it. So basically, you go home to yourself, into yourself, and by yourself. Its a tricky time to take someone with you. But a brilliant mind like yours, I am sure you will be able to make it through better than your predecessors.
Cause you gotta have faith to stand above the possibilities of criticism which will be limited in venom and misunderstandings when you find yourself comfortably in your own skin.

Re: Where do you go Home to?

[eaquity]

So essentially, if i don't love myself, who will?..
I always thought that was kinda missing the point.
Had i thought it possible to love myself, perhaps i wouldn't be looking for solutions elsewhere.

'Searching for yourself is like looking for the house you stand in.
How could you possibly find it?
It's everywhere, it's all you know,
and there are no other points of reference.'

(Thank you.)

Re: Where do you go Home to?

[thealley]

I know they say if you don't love yourself no one will, But i think its more appropriate to say If you're gonna hate and doubt, do it to yourself first. Don't think about dragging someone else with you through the mud of your deeper understanding until you have a greater handle on it. Only then will you know how to teach a partner what role you need them to play in your life.

And I love the quote, it is so perfect.
(And Thank You!)