Oh sorry. It actually happened about a week after we got back from Melbourne, but I got accused of trying to make people feel sorry for me when some friends commented on the relationship status change on Facebook, so I've been keeping quiet about it.
I suppose I should be over it by now? I dunno. It still feels like such a waste, but I guess this is what happens when people can't figure out how to talk to each other.
I wouldn't worry about whether or not you "should" be over it... I know I've taken longer to truly get over relationships.
The bottom line is, you need to take care of yourself, and the first step is to be aware of and ask yourself what you need. If you feel like you want more time, take more time. Allow yourself to go through the motions of however you feel about the situation. You need to take that time out for yourself (regardless of what other people say you "should" be doing), because if you don't take care of yourself and do that, you're not going to be able to deal with it properly.
So don't stress, just take your time, whatever you need.
And yes, communication is definitely one of the better things.
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I suppose I should be over it by now? I dunno. It still feels like such a waste, but I guess this is what happens when people can't figure out how to talk to each other.
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The bottom line is, you need to take care of yourself, and the first step is to be aware of and ask yourself what you need. If you feel like you want more time, take more time. Allow yourself to go through the motions of however you feel about the situation. You need to take that time out for yourself (regardless of what other people say you "should" be doing), because if you don't take care of yourself and do that, you're not going to be able to deal with it properly.
So don't stress, just take your time, whatever you need.
And yes, communication is definitely one of the better things.
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