why do i even bother

[edmundsyap]

i give up on trying to understand the higher echelons of our society, the so-called sosyal class. i can put up with sensibilities if it was a girl, but if it comes from a friend it really sounds gay. if you don't like what i'm saying or doing, then punch me or tell me to fuck off. then let's get into a fistfight and get drunk afterwards. and i

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[edmundsyap]

i remember someone telling me that if i don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. well i say fuck you, what are you gonna do about it? not talk to me anymore? boo-fucking-hoo. i'm so devastated that you won't talk to me anymore. news flash. i am not a very nice person.

[tarush]

those people are just projecting their insecurities on everyone else

[edmundsyap]

or maybe i'm the insecure one, but who gives a flying fuck right? when all is said and done, you'll still be you and i'll still be me. when the smoke clears and we're still both standing, then congratufuckinglations to the both of us.

[kimbahlee18]

well, people who act that way are just conforming to societal pressures and standards, usually because in doing so they feel better about themselves and their insecurities. first off-- your "friend" shouldn't act like s/he is better than you; they should accept you as you are and treat you as an equal (or make every effort to). i think you should communicate this to them, but not by punching or fighting with them because that won't get you anywhere.

in the end yo're right-- who cares what people think b/c in the end, they probably have the wrong perception of who you are, anyway...
i don't know how it is there, but over here, people just need things to talk or be judgmental about. i don't give a crap what is said about me, b/c at the end of the day, there are only a few people you can really call a friend. remember,those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

[edmundsyap]

well getting into a fistfight and getting drunk afterwards always works for me. its a good way to divert all that negative vibe. then you can talk. in any case, who's right or who's wrong doesn't matter here. words are just words. personally, i don't think words should be able to ruin a friendship, but i have been known to be wrong about these things. call me insensitive.

[kimbahlee18]

i don't think words should be able to ruin a friendship

so a so-called "friend" could sit around all day and say all sorts of mean things and even criticize you, and you wouldn't care? that would def DEF be the end of a friendship for me unless that person could come up w/ a good excuse for why they said all those nasty things to begin w/.

[edmundsyap]

sure, i don't know what the big deal is with words anyway