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[effinchels]

My Grandpa died while I was home visiting...it was very sudden and unexpected. I'm so sad. It's not just that he died, that's bad enough, but being back in that house where we always spent holidays with all of my family...made me feel like my Grandma was dying all over again too. I'm just incredibly sad. I hope that they are together again, and

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[bluexhaust]

of course those two are together again! I bet they are happier than ever, Chels. They are together; they've never been apart. I never met either of them, but just being in his house seeing all the pictures he had of your grandma and poems from when she passed...they're together. And happier than you could imagine.

[grimacide]

Im sorry about your Grandpa. I dont know what goes on when we die, but I dont think we just disappear. Wherever they are, I hope they are both happy. One of the hardest parts of death for me is when you think about that persons life and how it could have been better. When my Grandma died the thing I mourned the most was what might have been for her, and how I might have made her life better. But I think the finality of death, as heartbreaking as it is can teach us that we have to value the time we have with people, and act towards them in a way we can look back and be proud of when they do die. It mellows you out. Little things like being right, suddenly dont seem so important.

[flowie6]

im sorry love
it's always horrible to loose someone you care about...
time will make it better... i'm sure everyone tells you this...
hope you feel better...

<3