UK Lolita Communities

[riarosedoll]

So I was wondering if there may be any little active communties near me - especially in the England, East Midlands area?
I've tried looking around but I thought it would be worth a try asking here.

I was a member of two on facebook recently, but for some sudden, unexplained reason, I appear to have been blocked from them out of the blue - I feel

Comments

[mau5chan]

I am the admin of one of the groups you were removed from, and as you well know, you were removed for persistent rule breaking in multiple groups and for becoming aggressive and argumentative when it was brought to your attention. Midlolis are generally known for being one of the friendliest and most relaxed comms in the country and we do not remove people lightly. The final straw was the abusive message you sent to another lolita after her genuine attempts to help you and I personally do not feel comfortable keeping you in the group after the way you have spoken to me and to others. Furthermore, you've sent me no messages to explain yourself at all, rather you just made a new facebook profile and attempted to re-join under another name without contacting me

[riarosedoll]

I haven't even had problems in multiple groups - they only one I had was asking for opinions from everyone in a mentoring group. I had posted the exact same thing in another group with no problems, but considering I was being advised against my post, I took it down

[mau5chan]

You tried to add me as a friend but you didn't message me. You did not need to make alternate profiles at all. I also don't like to break this to you in this way; but Katie is not the only girl who reported you at various points. I did not know Katie was involved or had commented on your conduct at all, so your mentioning her is irrelevant

[riarosedoll]

You are assuming to much and haven't gotton everything right, but I have instead inboxed you if that's what you prefer. I'm trying to be nice about this, so I'd appreciate it if you listened.

[mau5chan]

I have a full time job, Rebecca, I am not "not listening", I can't be expected to be in my Livejournal inbox constantly.

I won't be making any kind of response until I've consulted the other affected group leaders anyway. My one tip to you is to try not to be so passive aggressive as it's unhelpful and unnecessary. Please wait until I reply to you instead of coming back here.

[riarosedoll]

I only posted here earlier, so you knew to check your live journal inbox after I had sent a message there earlier today - as some people have missed my messages during sales, for example.

[layercaeks]

Sorry to interrupt but this kind of "debate" should not be publicized. Ria, if you keep arguing and stuff in public it only makes you look worse. You can't argue your way into a friendship. And if a group is approached by someone aggressive they are most likely to put up walls. There is no loss to them. This entire issue is making you look really immature. As for mau5chan you aren't helping. For whatever reason you need to bicker with her. I do understand defending yourself and letting the truth be known but you are arguing without backing up your story because of being too busy. That can aggravate the opposing side as they feel they are being attacked.

Ria I think you need to take a big look at yourself and your behavior and think to yourself "How would others see this?" No one likes a bully or a victimiser.