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[ehstrumpetgod]

Kim brought up the other day something about mindless middle school crushes and how it should still be like when you like someone and your friends make fun of you for it but then you make fun of them for who they like and it changes every week and none of it really matters anyway

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[embdrummergirl]

mine's not actual.
except that it is

but it seems not so sometimes. but by society

except for all the people who tell me 'how perfect you too are' and 'you're gonna marry him' and 'i always liked him best' and 'you're still my favorite' (actually, the last one's pretty cool, as it's from his dad...while he had a gf. that sort of mean...oh well)
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[anonymous]

I have the same issue if it makes you feel better. I crushed thricein middle school and an addional 4 times in HS, didnt take action all 7 times and lost out.

But a lot of that is because I dont now, nor have i ever really had much of an interest in relationships. One of my middle school crushes (who was a good HS friend) once told me that perhaps i am just naturally celebate. I think maybe she is right. I have been surrounded by women i find attractive, I have been surrounded by women i want to spend lots of time with, i have been surrounded by women who fit both criteria, and yet i don't take action. not because of shyness really, just because i feel no desire to start a reationship. I think about the future and a wife is not part of what i see. I wont rule relationships out, and i still woould like to try dating, but i really am not very interested.

-Brain

[anonymous]

That doesnt mean i dont go in for physical contact, i love it. (not sexual mind you, my scruples...) But i too am a touch whore. The best feeling in the world is soneone sleeping/crying/otherwise resting on your shoulder/lap.
-Brain