Comments | ehzoterik: I'm so pathetic

ehzoterik

I'm so pathetic

Feb 08, 2010 11:58

I keep waking up with the feeling that Saturday was just a really bad dream. That it didn't happen. The past two days I have woke up with at least thirty seconds worth of feeling like I'll roll over and she'll be right there. Tucked up under my night stand. Or waiting for me downstairs. Or that she uncharacteristically got up on the bed and is ( Read more... )

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misscatlady February 8 2010, 22:54:39 UTC

You're definitely not pathetic, Ehz. *hug* These things take time, is all. I cry more over the loss of close pets than family members too. We don't see those family members every day. Sure we care, but they're not really INGRAINED in our lives the way our pets or cats are. They're there when we wake up, throughout the day, when we sleep... They become a big fixture in our lives so when they go away it leaves a big wound that needs time to heal.

dramatica February 9 2010, 20:18:45 UTC

No reason to feel pathetic. Pets *are* family. And losing a pet is almost worse because as Miss CatLady said they are there everyday. Then they're not.

I still cry over Cordelia and it's been almost a year. All the advice I can give is know that you did all that you could for Grem. And she was/still is loved.

::hug:: If you need anything at all. Call me, even if you just need someone to listen.