So as I sit here and type this, it is currently 20 minutes to 1AM, and I am wide awake. I guess 4 cups of black coffee will do that to you
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this is what you get for all work and no play darling. You had plenty of oportunities this summer to go some where and hang out and you never took them. You put yourself in that rut of home-work-girlfriend.
Yes you had ROA to break it up and you had Magic and D&D to break it up too, but ROA/Magic/D&D was with all the people you live with. So it still fell into Home-Work-Girlfriend, because you didn't socialize outside of that narrow view.
I hope you still have a job when you go to work in the morning.
I also hope that you will take the time on the weekends to just get in the car and wander. Wander to Sugar Loaf and just walk the stores. Go on line and see where there are local music festivals and check them out. Go to New Paltz and wander the stores. That adventure spirit is not limited to wandering off into the unknown trying to make your way. It could be satisfied simpley by getting in your car and going for a drive for the day and getting lost for an hour or two.
I think that what it comes to is that you need to sit and think about you. what does Rob want? what does he feel? If you can't deal with a situation it doesn't make you a weak person.
Sometimes you need to travel to find yourself. not everyone can just grow up and live in the same area and be happy. There are those that have a need to see, to explore. if that's for you so be it. You can always come home.
Just make sure you have money , clothes and food. go and find yourself. you'll never be able to be a ina relationship until you do that.
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Yes you had ROA to break it up and you had Magic and D&D to break it up too, but ROA/Magic/D&D was with all the people you live with. So it still fell into Home-Work-Girlfriend, because you didn't socialize outside of that narrow view.
I hope you still have a job when you go to work in the morning.
I also hope that you will take the time on the weekends to just get in the car and wander. Wander to Sugar Loaf and just walk the stores. Go on line and see where there are local music festivals and check them out. Go to New Paltz and wander the stores. That adventure spirit is not limited to wandering off into the unknown trying to make your way. It could be satisfied simpley by getting in your car and going for a drive for the day and getting lost for an hour or two.
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Sometimes you need to travel to find yourself. not everyone can just grow up and live in the same area and be happy. There are those that have a need to see, to explore. if that's for you so be it. You can always come home.
Just make sure you have money , clothes and food. go and find yourself. you'll never be able to be a ina relationship until you do that.
Just remeber No day but today. *hug*
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