If it makes you feel any better, some of my friends who are living really real, grown up, on-your-own lives come across these problems a lot too. So it certainly doesn't mean you aren't fit to be an adult. It just seems to be so tough to start out living that life (in both our cases...).
Miss you guys. Hope to be able to break away and see you soon.
(thanks so much for your bit on the Halloween card, by the way. not sure if Meg mentioned that but it meant a lot)
Yeah, she did, and I'm glad. I never say anything I don't mean, unless I'm helping customers. ;p
Thanks. I'm just having a really hard time handling my parents right now, and dealing with the fact that I really don't feel much for them any more. It's hard.
Really tough thing to come to terms with, yeah... I have a lot of anger towards mine that I hope dissipates when I move out... I don't know if it's a similar case with you, or if the wounds are deeper, but I hope things even out in the end.
I just hit a point with my mother years ago where she was delusional and yelling at me for things I either hadn't done at all or had done months before. I had to completely disconnect or just kill myself over it. I never really got it back, because every time I tried I got angry or hurt again. So now it's a big hunk of apathy, when it isn't annoyance, frustration, or pity.
Overall I just don't think she contributes much to the world around her any more and I don't think she's really living a good life. I am huge on quality of life and she just doesn't have it.
If you job had any kind of 'good sense' and you present the fact that you need the class for your license, which will actually make you More Available to them - they will Make Allowances for the class for the limited time you need to go.
It's not like its a permanent change to your availability.
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If it makes you feel any better, some of my friends who are living really real, grown up, on-your-own lives come across these problems a lot too. So it certainly doesn't mean you aren't fit to be an adult. It just seems to be so tough to start out living that life (in both our cases...).
Miss you guys. Hope to be able to break away and see you soon.
(thanks so much for your bit on the Halloween card, by the way. not sure if Meg mentioned that but it meant a lot)
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Thanks. I'm just having a really hard time handling my parents right now, and dealing with the fact that I really don't feel much for them any more. It's hard.
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Overall I just don't think she contributes much to the world around her any more and I don't think she's really living a good life. I am huge on quality of life and she just doesn't have it.
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It's not like its a permanent change to your availability.
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