Rules
Rules. Many d/s relationships have a list of rules (mostly for the sub, but sometimes including the dom). I don't have many rules for elf, but I do have guidelines. There are also shared rules, and hopes for the future
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yes, but it's especially important in intense situations - and I for intense things I need to have the effect in mind well before-hand.
I don't think I have anything to add to our conversation on the other two.
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Brattiness is acceptable but will be punished
This one confuses me. What value is achieved by punishing acceptable behaviour?
Aspirant.
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However much as brattiness is "fun loving" behavior sometimes or in some circumstances it is not acceptable behaviour, no matter how cute it is. In those incidences, training is required not punishment unless it is a repeat offense.
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I can think of two elements to this.
1) I like giving cherished_elf a stern look or a good spanking. Those things are more likely, and somewhat more fun for me, as a punishment. The result is that I don't mind her giving me a reason. Thus she will get 'punished' for brattiness, but I'm only trying to stop the behavior for the next 20 minutes (or evening at most) and won't be disappointed if it happens again later.
2) Shallow appearances - elf is supposed to be a good sweet respectful little subby. Of course that would bore the hell out of me without some variety. So I keep up the appearance of expecting perfect respectful behavior, while letting her know that I enjoy her spark and fiestiness. This part really is a game, and a heck of a fun one. Plus it means I get to smack her or give her a glare (see #1).
I once gave her a writing assignment for acting up at an inappropriate time, and part of the assignment was to say why I like when she's a brat :)
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