I need comments on this one!!

[eli07]

Ok...so, a friend commented something to me today that has me thinking. FOr those of you who know about my recent ex-boyfriend trauma, you might understand..but I'm not going to go into full detail. SO here goes

Comments

[crazytamale]

Well, I think that you're thinking too much. I think that if you have to actually think about it then you're putting too much effort. You should treat the situation as if it doesn't affect you. He calls you, you should say "oh hey, whats up. whats going on?" Know what I mean? As for your stuff, I don't think you need to call him. If hes so concerned with giving it back to you then he should pick up the phone and quite being a coward. I'm sure if the tables were turned you'd call him. If he can't gather los cojones then forget about it...its not like you're asking for your shit back anyways. As for your "friend", explain to her just that. Its his idea to return your stuff, then he should call...you're not obligated to him. I don't think that you should be bitter towards him or anything...you should treat him just as you would treat an aquitance. The most important thing to remember is to "not be affected by it". Like you said, its all about you.